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05 19 17 JTF 1 The latest from the Mendota Heights Police Department CHIEF Kelly McCarthy SERGEANTS Eric Petersen Tanner Spicer Peyton Fleming POLICE OFFICERS John Larrive Todd Rosse Jeff VonFeldt Denise Urmann Michael Shepard Nick Gorgos Robin Nelson Steve Hilyar Philip McCarty Weston Raberge INVESTIGATIONS Chad Willson SCHOOL RESOURCE OFFICER Jennifer Fordham COMMUNITY SERVICE OFFICER Eric Hagelee SUPPORT STAFF Kim Henning Trista Miller Shayna Hoechst Becky Pentel RESERVES Jim Knox Jeff Parker Jon Clayton Dan Iverson CHAPLAINS Butch Millett John Snider Alberto Vargas Lynn Liberman Sue Plucker Joel Detlefsen Lenny Andrie MAY 19, 2017 ARE YOU THE GOOD NEIGHBOR OR THE BAD NEIGHBOR? Our home and neighborhood environments impact how we feel. We all search for “good neighborhoods” to call home, knowing it can mean the difference in our quality of life. However, every neighborhood experiences some sort of conflict. We have found that most neighbor conflicts arise from animal issues, care of property or a simple lack of common courtesy (mixed with some stubbornness). Conflict is universal and occurs daily, yet we humans continue to struggle with managing conflict. We respond to many civil disputes arising out of neighborly, or not so neighborly, conflict. Let’s face it, we all have stress, but it’s how we handle that stress that makes a difference in managing potential conflict. Some days we are simply more resilient than others and those little things can suddenly seem much bigger. Consider a time you had a difficult neighbor situation. What did you do? Were you the “good” neighbor or the “bad” neighbor? Why do you think so? Consider these conflict challenges and how your actions might contribute to or help resolve the conflict.  Fear—Many of us fear conflict resolution. We fear hurting someone’s feelings, retaliation and simply having a discussion with a neighbor. We fear the unknown.  Doubt—We often doubt our own feelings, questioning if it’s real or imagined, maybe heightened by our own tension. We may talk with other neighbors first to gain consensus or determine validity, which can often escalate the situation.  Lack of Action—Maybe you communicate with your neighbor about the issue but their response was ineffective, or they were possibly rude and heightened the conflict. Now what? Counter your conflict challenge with these steps and be the “good” neighbor:  Calm Down! Breath deeply for 60 seconds and wait to respond to any situation for 24 hours. Don’t speak, send or deliver any message that might escalate the matter. Keep it off social media and don’t spread the info to other neighbors. Just breathe…and don’t ‘poke the bear’.  Communicate to Gain Perspective. What positive action can you take to help remedy the situation? Can you try to understand the perspective? You will need to have a face to face to accomplish this, with your calm friendly face starting the conversation. By initiating the conversation, you may not only learn something helpful but you might also build understanding and empathy for your neighbor.  Call for Help. If you have tried to handle the conflict on your own but have received no cooperation or resolution, ask for help. Apartment managers, city hall or the police may be able to help document and address the problem.  Plan a Block Party! Nothing works better in neighborhoods than building cohesion with food and fun. It promotes neighborhood safety and builds bridges to discuss and combat areas of concern. MHPD is here to help, but most situations can be resolved with a little friendly, constructive effort. 2 DOG BITE — HUBER DR/MENDOTA HGTS RD Thursday, 5/11/2017, 1930 hours Victim called to report past action dog bite. Dog was reported as a medium sized, black and white dog, possibly a pit-bull, and attacked while it was being walked on a leash. Owners denied the attack; identifying information not obtained. Photos of injury were taken and witness info pending for follow -up. LOST PROPERTY — 2XXX MENDAKOTA DR Friday, 5/12/2017, 0832 hours Reporting party informed officers that a week ago, he had left his phone and watch in his golf cart; when he realized it and returned, only the phone was found. The watch hasn ’t turned up and insurance company needed a case number. Inactive. CAR VS MOTORCYCLE—7XX MAIN ST Saturday, 5/13/2017, 0846 hours Responded to a car versus motorcycle crash at the intersection of Market and Main Streets. No injuries were reported. Car driver turned into the path of the motorcycle because driver "didn't see" the motorcycle. Motorcycle had disabling damage and had to be towed from the scene. State crash report completed. DAMAGE TO PROPERTY—1XXX 2ND ST Sunday, 5/14/2017 0226 hours Officers were dispatched reference a suspicious male pounding on another residents door late at night in the 1300 block of 2nd Street. On scene, officers discovered that a feud between neighbors led one man to damage the property of another. Parties were separated and case sent to city attorney for formal charges. SUSPICIOUS/TRANSPORT HOLD – 2XXX ROGERS CT Monday, 5/15/2017 0200 hours Report of suspicious people outside of a home on the 22XX block of Rogers Ct. The area was checked extensively and no one was located. A few hours later officers were dispatched to the same address for a similar incident except this time the suspicious parties were located in and under the bushes. The party was ultimately transported by ambulance for a mental health evaluation. ACCIDENT/PERMIT VIOLATION—7XX MAIN ST Monday, 05/15/2017, 0920 hours Responded to the 700 block of Main St concerning a two vehicle property damage accident. One vehicle was backing from a parked position and backed into a passing vehicle. Minor damage, no tows. One driver cited for instructional permit violation. HIT & RUN—9XX HWY 13 Monday, 05/15/2017, 0941 hours Victim reported damage to her vehicle. The owner believes the damage was sustained while she was at the gas pumps at a business in the 900 block of Hwy 13. The damage was to the drivers side, front quarter panel. Video was watched during the time frame of what the victim thought she was at the business. The victims vehicle was visible at the gas pumps, no vehicles were observed striking her vehicle. 3 ACCIDENT—1XXX MENDOTA HTS RD Monday, 05/15/2017, 0951 hours Two vehicle accident in a parking lot of local business. Drivers exchanged information, report completed. HIT & RUN — 5XX ABBEY WAY Monday, 05/15/2017, 1030 hours Officers responded to the 5XX block of Abbey Way for a hit-and-run accident. The owner of a vehicle reported that someone had struck a vehicle and failed to notify them of the damage. There were no suspects provided by the owner. This case is inactive. THEFT—1XXX DELAWARE AVE Monday, 05/15/2017, 1010 hours Officers responded to the 1800 block of Delaware Avenue on a report of a theft. No suspects or evidence developed. Report was filed; case inactive. IDENTITY THEFT—1XXX SIBLEY MEMORIAL Monday, 05/15/2017, 1103 hours Victim in the 1000 block of Hwy 13 fell victim to identity theft. The victim was convinced to allow a business to install an updated firewall. The suspect was able to gain access to the victims account and withdraw funds. Victim spoke with her bank who advised her to report the theft with the police department. Victim was provided with a case number. ACCIDENT—5XX MIRIAM ST Tuesday, 05/16/2017, 1824 hours MHPD Officer responded to the 5XX block of Miriam St for a two vehicle collision. Upon arrival only one of the drivers was there. However, parties exchanged information and had already been in contact with each other. The party that left offered to pay for the damages. There were no injuries and minor visible damage. 4 5/12 – 5/18 2017 YTD Calls for Service 178 3,419 Citations 10 426 Warnings 22 306 Police Reports 22 426 Response Time Average 5.90 5.30 Check out the MH Crime Map! Click below to search your neighborhood: https://www.raidsonline.com 1101 Victoria Curve, Mendota Heights, MN 55118 If you are a Mendota Heights resident and you are going out of town or on vacation, you can notify MHPD of your outing and we will be more than happy to keep a watchful eye on your home while you are away. The House Check Request online form is available on our website; you can complete a form found in our lobby, or simply give us a call and we’ll help you out. MHPD offers monthly Car Seat Safety Checks. To schedule an appointment, call 651.452.1366 or email jennyf@mendota-heights.com to contact Officer Jennifer Fordham. We are temporarily postponing this service for a few months. Stay tuned! MHPD has a Medication Disposal Box in the lobby of the PD where Dakota County residents can safely and anonymously dispose of their prescription drugs and over-the-counter medication. Please send us your positive feedback on our staff to: pdrecords@ mendota-heights.com Your feedback is greatly appreciated and helps boost the morale of our staff. HAVE A SAFE WEEK! Community Mediation and Restorative Justice Services in Dakota, Ramsey and Washington Counties. DRC was created in 1982 as a pilot project co-sponsored by the MN Supreme Court, the Ramsey County Bar Association and the City of St. Paul. DRC works with individuals, families, community groups, government agencies, and businesses to help resolve conflict. DRC handles many types of community problems including: public safety, traffic and parking, rental arrangements, consumer-merchant disputes, neighborhood conflicts, complaints about noise or pets, property line disputes, small claims concerning money, property damage, or breach of contract. Studies show that mediation produces more long lasting and satisfying solutions than those imposed by courts. Services are offered on a sliding scale and no one is ever turned away for inability to pay. For more information on how DRC can help you, please visit their website by clicking below. CLICK HERE